File photo of a worried man
Dear GhanaWeb,
When I asked her if she still wanted the relationship, she told me no. Her reason was that she wanted to become a “baby mama” and didn’t want to settle down with me or marry anyone else, especially since all of her friends were in the same situation.
I was shocked because my suspicions were becoming a reality right before my eyes. Even though I knew she was already deep into some strange things with those women, I still asked her why she wanted to end things and pursue that path.
She gave me weak excuses about her health and mentioned that she wasn’t getting any younger.
I asked her if she had found someone to be making out with her since that’s one of the major issues she was complaining about indirectly because she needed semen to conceive and be a baby mama. 4
She said no, she just wanted to be alone. I begged her not to leave me, I told her we could work things out but she refused.
I was the one hurting because I loved her but she was inconsiderate. She then said if she should continue the relationship with me, she’d cheat on me with someone else.
She is the only good thing that has happened to me in the past few years.
Prior to all these drama, someone from her circle had told me that, there was this guy she was seeing. We broke up that day and I tried to move on but it was hard.
I understood that she needed to be with the other man so badly and didn’t want him to find out about me.
From what I was told, the man had been in the picture before, but they had lost contact.
Three weeks after our breakup, the man she left me for mysteriously died. Then, out of nowhere, she started calling and texting me again.
I no longer feel comfortable with her. I feel betrayed and cheated on, and I can’t help but wonder why all of this is happening. I asked her what led to the man’s death, but she didn’t say anything to me.
Now, I’m left unsure, should I be happy that she’s reaching out to me again, or should I move on with my life without her?
I’ve tried to love her again, but deep down, I don’t think this will work anymore.
What should I do now?
FG/EB
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